Military wedding resources

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Bridal gown giveaway
Military wedding contests & other opportunities
Books for your military wedding

Bridal gown giveaway for military brides

Nationwide Military Wedding Gown Giveaway Event (Brides Across America)
Bridal salons are uniting across America to donate and giving away wedding gowns to qualified military brides. You may qualify even if you had a civil ceremony and are planning an upcoming wedding.

Military wedding contests and other opportunities

Brecknock Hall - Veterans Day Wedding Giveback 2022 (Greenport, NY)
In 2011, Brecknock Hall, in partnership with Peconic Landing, created the Veterans Day Wedding Giveback—an opportunity to thank our military personnel and recognize them for their service. Through the generosity of area businesses & fellow wedding industry professionals the event, now in its 10th year, has become a much anticipated annual staple at Brecknock Hall.

Brecknock Hall is thrilled to announce that they are currently accepting applications for the 2022 Veterans Day Wedding Giveback. Applications are being accepted through March 15, 2022 and the winning couple will be notified in early May.

Castle Farms (Charlevoix, MI) (awaiting 2022 info)
Military couples,
Our annual Military Wedding Giveaway is something that we look forward to hosting every year in hopes of providing an amazing event package for the men and women that have served or are serving our country. This event is not possible without the many incredible vendors who share our same passion for saying thank you with more than just words. This year has been especially challenging for everyone in the events industry, and this has led to the difficult decision to wait until 2022 to host our next Military Wedding Giveaway. We hope to plan for an incredible giveaway in 2022 and want to say thank you to all of our past participants and vendors for making this giveaway possible!
​~ The Castle Farms Team

Chapel at the Farm (Gilbert, AZ)
Chapel at the Farm supports our active duty military families with complimentary elopement weddings every THURSDAY of the month. We are proud to have hosted many of these ceremonies for our well-deserved military members. This wedding is FREE to all active duty service members.supports our active military families with complimentary weddings or vow renewals every Tuesday of the month.

This is our 12 guest Simply Charming Chapel Wedding Package. Vow renewals can be private with just the two of you or share the day with up to 12 guests. A reservation is required and you will need to show your military ID and provide marriage license.  

If you would like more guests, a different day of the week, or a different package we offer a discounted rate on all of our packages (other than our 99.00 elopement package) for active military.

Wood Bottom Quail Farms (Bethel, OH) (awaiting 2022 info)
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WoodBottom Quail Farms is offering free weddings to military members and veterans the entire month of October 2021!

WoodBottom Quail Farms, LLC, a veteran-owned and woman-owned family farm, is offering no-cost wedding ceremonies to military members, currently serving and veterans throughout the month of October, as a thank you for their service. Several businesses around Cincinnati have also joined in for the second year in a row. Rustic ceremonies in an 1830s barn with officiant, wedding dresses, engagement and wedding photography, salon services, floral, professional decorating, wedding planner, videography, gift items, and an array of other items and services are offered to the selected military couples. Inquiries can be sent via email to [email protected].

Application deadline is March 14, 2021 for any military couple that would like to participate.

Military wedding books

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Military Weddings and the Military Ball
Authors: Mary Preston; Tomlinson, Mickey Gross, Copyright @ 1983

The Military Wedding
Author: Vanessa Baldwin, Copyright @ 2008

As a wedding consultant, who specializes in military weddings, I hear brides, who are trying to plan military weddings, lament about the lack of information available about military weddings. Brides are marrying later and are better educated. Even if they are hiring a wedding consultant to plan a military wedding, the brides still want to know as much as possible. Most wedding planning and etiquette books briefly address military weddings, but not to the satisfaction of most military brides. There are situations that face the bride or groom marrying a military person that a civilian couple doesn't always have to face. In addition to embarking on a new journey as a married couple, the military wedding is the beginning of a whole new way of life and culture. A severe case of culture shock may manifest once the new military spouse arrives at the spouse's duty location. Welcome to the brave new world of military jargon, acronyms, ID cards, wives' clubs, customs and courtesies, personnel reassignments, deployments and on and on. Becoming a military spouse is also an exciting adventure--full of new and exotic places, as well as challenges that will test the foundation of your marriage. Or, it will strengthen your partnership as husband and wife, bound by the fondest memories of shared experiences, adventures and challenges conquered. It's enough to make a strong person weak in the knees. It's not a life for the faint of heart.

So, this book, The Military Wedding, has been written to make the experience less harrowing and more enjoyable. This book is mainly written for the civilian bride marrying a military groom, but I will try not to overlook the civilian groom marrying a military woman and the military bride and groom. A few paragraphs, as found in most books, won't answer your questions. Consider this your military wedding planning manual or special operating instruction to supplement your main wedding planning guide.
Military wedding resources, giveaways, books and free bridal gowns!
Be sure to check out these ADDITIONAL resources:

Dating and marriage resources
Resources for supporters of military and veteran families
  • Practical insights in caring for
             Home front families
             Military personnel
             PTSD, wounded warriors
             Loved ones of the fallen

Military and veteran family resources
  • Christian encouragement
  Bibles, devotionals, studies
  Bible verses that offer hope
  Of grace and gratitude
             peer support, sexual assault,
             suicide prevention
  • Deployment support for
  Military personnel
  Military spouses
  Military children, teens
  • Downloads and printables
  Brat Town Bugle TM
  Coloring pages
  Flat Brat TM
  Military house ornament

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