Looking for connection and friendship? Here are groups to plug into so you're not alone.

Online connection and support

Children of military personnel
Visit this Operation We Are Here link for a listing of local programs as well as online connection and support for military children and teens.

Esposas Militares
Esposas Militares Hispanas USA comenzó en Diciembre 2007. Hemos sido de gran ayuda para muchas familias militares, en diferentes aspectos. Cuando no encontramos una respuesta buscamos y trabajamos hasta encontrarla. 

Her War Her Voice
Supporting our Soldiers, Marines, Airmen, and Sailors by supporting their loved ones.

Homefront United Network
The Homefront United Network is here to provide all military spouses and family members a comfortable and positive environment. This is a place for you to gain resources, vent, support others and celebrate our lives as military spouses, family and friends.

Macho Spouse
Macho Spouse is an educational video series and online resource for male military spouses.
Our mission is to help male military spouses connect with one another and assure that we are not alone in this military family lifestyle. Macho Spouse includes interviews, information and life experiences from male military spouses, PhD. level military family researchers and counselors, military spouse career experts, and bloggers/authors on military family life.

Military SOS
Military Significant Others and Spouse Support provides information and support for all aspects of the military life, from basic and bootcamp to relocation and retirement. You'll find friends in your area, deployment support groups, people who understand this life and your feelings, ideas for care packages, support for post deployment reintegration, advice on helping kids cope with the military lifestyle and much more. 

MilSpouse.com is the official website of Military Spouse magazine. Find military spouse related information and articles on deployment, relationships, sex, family, children, money, careers, education, decorating, mental and physical health.

Semper Fi Sisters
We are a group committed to supporting not only ALL branches of military and families (active, reserves, veterans, injured/wounded, the fallen families) but each other as women who have a desire & spirit of giving & sharing.

A community of news, culture, tips, tricks and great ideas for the modern military spouse.


Air Force - Air Force Wives
BJ 'n Cindy, a retired Marine couple, created this network and filled it with all kinds of resources to help you find whatever you may need... and to find one another.

Army - Army Wife Network
Army Wife Network is the internet’s leading website for army wives, by army wives. We boast the only internet talk radio show designed specifically for military spouses – Army Wife Talk Radio.

Army - Family Readiness Group (Virtual FRG)
ArmyFRG is your direct connection to Command information for your unit. Register today for your unit's Virtual FRG site and get connected to all of the pertinent information and resources you need to stay informed and connected.

Coast Guard - Coast Guard Wives
BJ 'n Cindy, a retired Marine couple, created this network and filled it with all kinds of resources to help you find whatever you may need... and to find one another.

Coast Guard - Coastie Chicks
Welcome to CoastieChicks.net, an un-official United States Coast Guard support group. This site is intended for Coast Guard Spouses, but anyone associated with the Coast Guard may participate.

Marines - Marine Wives
BJ 'n Cindy, a retired Marine couple, we created this network and filled it with all kinds of resources to help you find whatever you may need... and to find one another.

Navy - Navy Wives
BJ 'n Cindy, a retired Marine couple, created this network and filled it with all kinds of resources to help you find whatever you may need... and to find one another.

Navy - Navy Wives Club of America
NWCA is the Navy Wives Clubs of America, Inc., the country's only National Federation of Sea Services Spouses.

Navy - The Navy Fleet and Family Support Center
Fleet and Family Support ProgramFleet and Family Support Programs (FFSP) support individual and family readiness and adaptation to life in the Navy. Programs include:
  • deployment support for Sailors and their families
  • personal and family wellness education and counseling
  • emergency preparedness and response
  • crisis intervention and response 
  • military and personal career development
  • financial education and counseling
  • spouse employment


Local connection and support

Battle Buddies (Grace Baptist Church - Manhattan, KS)
A time for military and veteran wives and military women that includes crafts, games and fellowship. Meetings are the 2nd Tuesday of the month from 7-9 pm. Childcare is provided.

Blue Star Family chapters
Our Blue Star Family chapters get together for friendship and support, but they also connect to help fellow military families and/or the larger community AND to get cool stuff for their units or bases with the help of our national BSF programs and partnerships with groups like KIDS in Distress.

Cadence International Hospitality House - Located near military installations
At “a home away from home” servicemen and women find an open door, a comfortable couch, a home-cooked meal, and people who listen, encourage, love, and point them to the hope of Christ. Hospitality Houses offer different ministries depending on location. These may include Bible studies, singles groups, family-focused ministries, evangelistic outreach efforts, one-to-one discipleship, and coffee house ministries. Hospitality House missionaries strive to share the ups and downs of life with military personnel, encouraging them into deeper relationships with others and with Christ.

Churches - Military friendly
Has directories of churches that minister to military members and their families.
Connect, serve and grow with military believers, churches and ministries around the world.

CWOC - Catholic military wives Bible study at military installations
Catholic Women of the Chapel is a diverse group of Catholic Women who come together for fun, God talk, faith sharing, Bible study, prayer, and military life sharing. CWOC is many things. Above all, we are a group of women of the church who recognize the importance of a safe, caring environment of acceptance, tolerance, and concern for the spiritual, physical, emotional and intellectual well-being of our members. We are a circle of friends looking outward, ready to find ways to serve others and spread the good news.

Just Moved - Find local classes using Moving On After Moving In material
Whether your move was a welcome opportunity or a dreaded event, you face tremendous change and the daunting task of starting over in a new place. Studies reveal that moving is among the top stressors, especially among women. Attending a Moving On After Moving In group is the best way to make this time of transition go more smoothly.

Military Faith
Use this website to connect and grow with military Christians at or near your duty station or ship.

Mothers of Preschoolers - (military and non-military MOPS) Has childcare while Moms meet in a structured environment
MOPS stands for Mothers of Preschoolers. MOPS International exists to meet the needs of every mom - urban, suburban and rural moms, stay-at-home and working moms, teen, single and married moms - moms with different lifestyles who all share a similar desire to be the very best moms they can be! MOPS recognizes that the years from infancy through kindergarten are foundational in a mother-child relationship and are filled with unique needs.

MOPS helps moms through relationships established in the context of local groups that provide a caring atmosphere for today's mother of young children. MOPS also encourages and supports moms through resources such as books, their web site and the MOPS International Membership.

Officers' Christian Fellowship (OCF)
OCF - Building Christian leaders, families, fellowships. Our purpose is to glorify God by uniting Christian officers for biblical fellowship and outreach, equipping and encouraging them to minister effectively in the military society.

OCF's directory will help you to locate Local Fellowships, primary contacts, and partnering chapels and churches.

As you travel TDY/TAD, deploy or move with PCS orders we hope that you will take advantage of this information and enjoy Christian fellowship.

There are local OCF organizations at almost every major military installation in the U.S., overseas, and on many Navy ships. If you are about to depart -- on a permanent change of station or on temporary duty -- we encourage you to contact us, and we will be glad to assist you in linking up with a local representative where you are going. Visit this LINK for a listing of OCF Fellowships and OCF Affiliated Churches and Chapels.

PWOC - Protestant military wives Bible study at military installations
The Protestant Women of the Chapel International is a resource network that unites, trains and encourages women in the military chapel community in their spiritual growth.

PWOC is God empowered, Christ centered and Spirit led; exists as an extension of the chapel; encourages women to grow spiritually within the body of Christ through prayer, the study of God's Word, worship and service; is sponsored by the Army Chief of Chaplains and is recognized by the leadership of the Air Force, Navy, Marine and Coast Guard Chaplaincy.

The website also includes the Girlfriend's Guide to Deployments: Marriage Superglue, Maintaining Intimacy in a Long-Distance Marriage, 100 Things You can Do While Your Spouse is Deployed, Ideas for Keeping the Love Connection Alive Across the Miles (for women), Deployment Encouragement.



Field Exercise TM (Army Wife Network)
Army Wife Network delivers on-site workshops to Army posts and Guard/Reserve units world-wide. Workshops are geared toward informing families on how to capitalize on the DA and DOD services already provided for them–empowering individuals to make the right choices in their relationship, career, or personal lives and encouraging an outlet for relief and creativity in today’s hectic, over-stressed military lifestyle.

Field Exercise™ is a grassroots seminar series, which Crooks and Henderson created Field Exercises™ to empower and rejuvenate military families. They deserve a night of appreciation and pampering, and they NEED information and an opportunity to meet other families in order to succeed in military life.

Gather Conference
Gather is a conference for women in PWOC and beyond, to celebrate, connect, encourage, and prepare.

Military Spouse Wellness Summit
The Military Spouse Wellness Summit is an ONLINE event that brings you ten guest expert interviews to listen to in the comfort of your home or on the go, plus an array of holistic marriage resources.

Planting Roots
Planting Roots is an independent ministry impacting military families with the Gospel of Jesus Christ for victorious living. Through Christ-centered, engaging events, world-class communicators and worship leaders speak into the lives of military families with the Gospel of Jesus Christ while challenging and encouraging believers to live out their faith in the place they are planted.

Semper Fi Sisters Beach Blast - Port St. Joe, FL
The purpose of Semper Fi Sisters Beach Blast is to provide friendship, support, valuable resources and information to the female family members of our past and present Armed Forces in a safe, friendly, fun and peaceful environment while participating in the SFS annual "Boxes of Love from the Home Front" packing event for deployed service members.

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