Books for Military Children & Teens

Military children - Deployed parent back to top

American Hero Books: My Daddy Is a Marine

Author: Alia Reese, Copyright @ 2011

Ages Infant-Preschool

www.heartstarpress.com

Help your infant-preschool age child understand and feel proud of Daddy’s very important job AND keep Daddy present in your child’s mind while Daddy is away during training and deployment. Read, march, and bark along with our fun and simple descriptions and insert your own picture over those printed in the book to see Daddy at work as a United States Marine.

A Paper HugAuthor: Stephanie Skolmoski, Copyright @ 2006

Have you ever said good-bye to someone very dear? Here's a story about a little boy who figured out the best gift to give his dad who was leaving to serve his country... a paper hug.

A Very Long Time Authors: Geri Timperley and Nikki Arro

www.averylongtime.com

"You don't have a dad!" Those were the words my son Adam's three-year-old daughter, Kylee Timperley, heard from a little boy at daycare after her dad was deployed to Iraq in the fall of 2003. Kylee responded, "I do too, he's just at drill for... a very long time."

I looked around for a children's book that might help Kylee grasp the meaning of time and how long it would take for her father to return. Finding none, my daughter, Nikki, and I wrote our picture book, A Very Long Time, to help Kylee and other children generate the tools they need to deal with the separation that might otherwise seem to never end.

A Year Without Dad Author: Jodi Brunson, Copyright @ 2003

A Year Without Dad was written to be a comfort to any child who has a parent serving in the National Guard. Whether the parent is away during war or peacetime, military separation can be a scary time for a child. What children will learn from reading this book is that it was not such a scary time for Ryan and his little sister Anna. Reading through the book season by season and being able to read about Dad coming home at the end will make the year seem to go by more quickly. After reading this book to your children, we encourage you to create a diary or scrapbook of your own. Your children and your soldier will be able to cherish it always.

A Year Without Daddy Author: Paige Turnbull

This is the story of a little dog whose dad gets deployed with the United States Marine Corps. It follows the little dog's journey from finding out about the deployment to daddy's homecoming a year later.

A Yellow Ribbon for Daddy Author: Anissa Mersiowsky, Copyright @ 2005

Ages 4-8

Book for military children going through a deployment. It asks the question from a child's perspective why their daddy has gone to fight and protect other children and families. It answers in an easy to read and rhyming format.

Boo Boo Bear's Mission Author: Mary Linda Sather, Copyright @ 2009

Ages 4-8

Boo Boo Bear's Mission tells the story of a beloved teddy bear on an important mission. Young Shea Leigh's dad has been deployed to Iraq with the Air National Guard. To help her dad feel less lonely while he is away from his family, Shea Leigh sends Boo Boo Bear to him in a care package. Half a world away from home, Boo Boo tours the base with Dad, embarks on a jet fighter flight and fulfills an important mission--to carry a family's love until they can be together again.

This true story, related to the author by her son and granddaughter, brings comfort and reassurance to children whose families are experiencing the anxieties of deployment. The book includes a parent guide to assist families as they cope with the stress that often accompanies military family separations. Featuring charming illustrations drawn by children from military and civilian families, Boo Boo Bear's Mission offers a message of love and hope that can turn the difficulties of family separation into opportunities for growth.

Butterfly in the Sky: Daddy's Little Girl

Author: Sugin Musgrave, Copyright @ 2008

Ages 4-8

The military child in this story represents all military children of all origins. The child is not faceless. The child's face is hidden so any military child reading the story can imagine themselves as the child in the story. This book is dedicated to all the unsung military children heroes for proudly standing behind their military parent.The author is a military spouse and the artist is a military child. Both look forward to publishing more books together in an effort to continue supporting military families.

But... What If? Author: Sandra Miller Linhart, Copyright @ 2010

Will Daddy remember me? Will I remember him? Homecomings are wonderful reunions, but they can also be stressful at times. Daddy is coming home, but he's been gone a long time. Will he recognize Bean? Will Bean be able to pick Daddy out in a sea of soldiers?

Being deployed is a fact of life for soldiers of all military branches. Humanitarian efforts, operations other than war (OOW), peaceful or wartime missions - a soldier's duty is to be there. And when it's time to come home, sometimes the unknown can be a bit scary. But... What If? is a loving description of the subtle insecurities a child of a returning male soldier may have.

Coming Home Series: Navy Dad Author: Sandi Lorenzana, Copyright @ 2006

Coming Home Series: Navy Dad offers valuable advice to help all members of the [military] family better vocalize their feelings and handle the inevitable difficulties that surface in the lives of 'military brats.' Lorenzana writes from personal experience and empathy...[offering] firsthand insight into what military dependents experience and how they can best cope with the anxiety and repeated separations.' -Ellen Tanner Marsh, New York Times best-selling author

Join Jasmine, her mom, her brother Josh and her bull dog Gladys as they welcome their Dad home. Experience how they deal with the sadness of his being gone, the excitement of his return and how they cope when he has to leave again. First of a series, Navy Dad is filled with fun illustrations and is designed to give kids hope and understanding.

Daddy Got His Orders Author: Sandi Lorenzana, Copyright @ 2004

Ages 9-12

Daddy Is a Soldier

Author: Kristen Hallowell, Copyright @ 2004

Ages 4-8

Daddy Loves You Author: Vianna Ramnath, Copyright @ 2006

Help parents of military families support their young child/children during deployment.

Daddy's Away Author: Jewell Douglas, Copyright @ 2006

The book for every military family! This children's book was inspired by my deployment to Operation Iraqi Freedom in 2005. This was dedicated to my son in an attempt to explain to him my daily life and duty overseas while serving this great nation.

Daddy's Boots Author: Sandra Miller Linhart, Copyright @ 2010

It's Boot's task to take Daddy where he's needed, but it's Daddy's job to explain why. Boots say Daddy is getting ready to deploy, but Bean needs to know why Daddy is leaving, what he does while he's away, and why Bean can't go with him. Daddy is a soldier and his boots are preparing to take him away again. If Bean can hide Daddy's boots will Daddy be able to stay? Daddy explains to Bean the many things Daddy's called to do, why his boots sometimes have to take him far away and how his work is really not so much different than other daddies' jobs.

Being deployed is a fact of life for soldiers of all military branches. Humanitarian efforts, operations other than war (OOW), peaceful or wartime missions - a soldier's duty is to be there. Sometimes it means leaving little ones behind wondering why. Daddy's Boots is a touching description of a few quiet moments between Daddy and his young child, Bean, as Daddy prepares to deploy for his job with the military.

Daddy's in Iraq, but I Want Him Back

Author: Carmen R. Hoyt, Copyright @ 2005

Ages 9-12

An hour is a long time to a small child. How do you describe the length of a military war deployment to a preschooler? When attempting to tell my son that his Daddy was not going to be gone for just a week or seven wake-ups, but for several months, I longed for a better way to lay it out for him. I felt a need for this story to be written when my three year old, Jack, became very insecure upon his father's deployment to the War in Iraq. I wished there was a way to help him "get his little arms around" the situation. It was new for me also and I didn't know how to help him. When my husband returned safely, I wanted to write the story. I wanted to document this time in our family's life; to put parameters around the situation for little people, who have no idea what's going to happen or why. Hopefully children can use our story to help deal with these deployments by seeing that there is a beginning, middle and thank God, an end to their parent or loved one being gone.

Daddy, You're My Hero! (Boardbook)

Author: Michelle Ferguson-Cohen, Copyright @ 2001

Ages Baby-preschool

Around the world, whether or not we are at war or involved in a military action, soldiers are deployed to service leaving their families behind. Everyday, children of military personnel are being confronted with the difficulties of having a parent deployed in the service of our country. Children's book author and military brat, Michelle Ferguson-Cohen, has written, "Daddy, you're my hero!" and "Mommy, you're my hero!" to help military and reservist's families speak with children about deployment.

Little Redhaired Girl Publishing, Inc. hears from many educators, parents, psychologists and military FRGs (Family Readiness Groups) who are using the books as a resource to help speak with their children about the deployment of a parent and war in general.

The books address deployment from a child's perspective. They talk about this separation in a simple manner to assure and comfort small children. The books also suggest tips to maintain communication and deal with feelings of helplessness.

Dear Baby, I'm Watching Over You Author: Carol Casey, Copyright @ 2010

Ages 4-8

Dear Baby, I'm Watching Over You is a tender story that helps children in military families understand why their parent chooses to serve our country and reassures that time and distance can't break the bonds between parent and child.

Deployment Author: Santina Rivera, Copyright @ 2010

This upbeat story is about a military kid trying to understand his feelings when his Dad has to deploy. He struggles with feelings of sadness and anger and even watches his Mom go through some challenges at home. Together, they learn how to become a team and work together to get through the long months ahead.

Heart of a Shepherd

Author: Rosanne Parry, Copyright @ 2010

Ages 9-12

Also available as a cd audio book

Teacher discussion guide available (3rd - 5th grade, 6th - 8th grade)

Brother has never been the rancher that his father and the older boys are. Sure, he can ride a horse, rescue a wayward calf, or mend a broken fence, but his heart just doesn’t seem to be in it. Even worse, every time one of the ranch animals dies he feels it too keenly. Still, with four older brothers to carry the load, it’s never been much of a problem.

Then Brother’s father is shipped off to Iraq with the rest of is reserve unit. With the older boys away at school, Brother must help his grandparents keep the ranch going. He’s determined to maintain the ranch just as his father left it, in the hope that doing so will ensure his father’s safe return. But life rarely goes according to plan. The hardships Brother faces will not only change the ranch but also reveal his true calling.

Hero Dad

Author: Melinda Hardin, Copyright @ 2010

Ages 4-8

Some superheroes wear rocket-propelled boots, drive super-powered cars, and have X-ray vision. But other superheroes wear Army boots, drive tanks, and go away for long trips to make the world a safer place. That's a tough job, but superheroes can do it. Some superheroes are dads. Army dads. Hero dads.

Home Again (Board Book)

Author: Dorinda Silver Williams, Copyright @ 2009

Ages 4-8

Home Again is a children's board book designed by ZERO TO THREE to support young children, as well as their parents and caregivers, through post deployment reunification. This book addresses family change and connectedness from the young child's perspective capturing the range of emotions and experiences that can be associated with post-deployment reunification.

How I Know My Dad Is a Soldier

Author: Dennis M. Johnson, Copyright @ 2007

How I Know My Dad is a Soldier shows the pride displayed by members of Armed Forces as seen through the eyes of their children. An underlining theme is the cultural diversity our Armed Forces has, another is the important part Mom plays in the Military Family.

How I Know My Dad Is a Soldier

Author: Dennis M. Johnson, Copyright @ 2007

How I Know My Dad is a Soldier, shows the pride displayed by members of Armed Forces as seen through the eyes of their children. An underlining theme is the cultural diversity our Armed Forces has, another is the important part Mom plays in the Military Family.

I Am Red, White, & Blue...Are You Feeling it Too?

Author: Deanna Lynn Cole, Copyright @ 2008

I Am Red, White, & Blue...Are You Feeling It Too? is a children's book written through the eyes of a child writing a letter to their favorite soldier, while sitting under a apple tree at a children's military camp for kids who have a loved one deployed. Children of all ages are encouraged to talk about their feelings that are associated with a military deployment. The full color paintings wonderfully depict a day in the life of little soldiers living on the homefront, choosing to find little ways to help others. It is through the colors that children can relate their feeling that it is okay to feel and it is good to talk about them.

I'm a Hero Too

Author: Jenny Sokol, Copyright @ 2007

Ages 4-8

Children in military families cope with a vast array of emotions when Mom or Dad deploys, especially during our nation's war on terror. In this compassionate story, a young boy learns to cope and thrive while Dad is far away. Subtle suggestions for families enduring separation are weaved throughout this poignant book, and the lovable main character ultimately realizes that he's part of a special and appreciated family.

I Miss My Daddy

Author: Heather Philbrook

A story I wrote for my daughter when her daddy deploys again to Iraq. How to help your little ones cope with missing their daddy. Guide and helpful hints in the back of the story for parents. Good for children with divorced dads, military dads or dads that just have to work away from home alot.

I Miss You!

A Military Kid's Book About Deployment Author: Beth Andrews, Copyright @ 2007

Ages 4-8

Military families face stressful times that are unique to the military lifestyle. One of the most challenging situations, both for children and parents, is when a father, mother, or sibling is deployed for military service and must be away from the home. Children often experience sadness, anger, fear, anxiety, and loneliness, and they do not understand their own feelings or know how to express them.

This book is designed to help children especially, but also their parents, during such difficult times. Based on many years of experience as a social worker, who has assisted military families experiencing stress, author Beth Andrews has created an excellent tool for allowing children and their loved ones to deal with the many emotions caused by deployment. The text and illustrations encourage children to discuss their feelings and to draw their own pictures to express themselves. The accompanying parents' guide is designed to validate parents' feelings and give them ways to help their children cope.

Guided by this approach, a parent or caregiver can help their children understand why one of their parents or a sibling had to leave home, identify their reactions, cope with their feelings in a positive way, be assured that they are not alone, and try new activities to help themselves adjust.

At a time when military families are asked to make many sacrifices in the service of their country, this reassuring book will be a welcome resource.

I Wish Daddy Was HereAuthor: Katherine DeMille, Copyright @ 2009

Ages 4-8

"The military life causes many families to endure extended separation when daddies get sent away. See how one little girl and her mother find strength through the seasons as they await the return of their loved one in the charming I Wish Daddy Was Here. This book catches the essence of military families. The honest feelings portrayed show incredible strength by being able to move through the seasons and survive a deployment. This is a powerful book for any child missing a parent." Annette Amos - Early Childhood Educator and Military Spouse.

Lily Hates Goodbyes Author: Jerilyn Marler, Copyright @ 2011

Ages 2-7

Lily's Daddy is in the military. Sometimes she has to say goodbye to him for about a billion days. She feels a swirl of unhappy emotions that can be scary. And she aches to feel connected to her Daddy. Join Lily as she learns how to cope with her emotions and to be happy in her daily life while she looks forward to joyfully saying hello when Daddy gets home.

This 32-page, full-color storybook will be a welcome companion to your child. Readers are comforted by Lily's experience and reassured to see Lily's happy reunion with her Daddy.

Memories of Me Author: R.M. Romagnoli, Copyright @ 2009

With the help of her Mom, one child gifts her Dad with a glimpse into the year he’s missed.

My Daddy Is a Guardsman Authors: Kirk and Sharron Hilbrecht, Copyright @ 2002

Ages 4-8

It can be hard for the children of members of the National Guard to understand why Daddy or Mommy has to go away on a mission for a long time. In simple text and pictures, My Daddy is a Guardsman lets kids know that Daddy has an important job: helping poor people around the world, capturing bad guys, and making the world a safer place to live.

My Daddy Is a Hero Author: Chad Childers, Copyright @ 2007

Ages 4-8

I am a disabled Army veteran. I served in Operations Enduring Freedom and Iraqi Freedom. I witnessed first hand the struggles that parents face when they have to explain to their children why it is that their parent is going to war. What I saw with my friends' children pressed upon my heart so much that I wanted to come up with some way to help all military families cope with this difficult situation. Military children often don't understand and are left wondering what happens when their parent is sent overseas. This book, through the eyes of a child, teaches young military children the whole process, from start to finish, what happens when their daddy is sent to a foreign land with the Armed Forces. My Daddy is a Hero explains the reason the father is going to war, situations that he encounters, the cultural differences between the people in the Middle East and Americans, and his safe return home. Enjoy the book and please support our troops.

My Daddy Is an Airman Authors: Kirk Hilbrecht and Sharon Hilbrecht, Copyright @ 2005

Ages 4-8

In simple text and pictures, this book lets kids know that daddy has an important job: helping poor people around the world, capturing bad guys, and making the world a safer place to live.

My Daddy Is a SoldierAuthors: Kirk Hilbrecht and Sharon Hilbrecht, Copyright @ 2001

Ages 4-8

Color picture book for young military families show how Daddy's job is important.

My Daddy Is a Soldier Author: Suzy Campbell, Copyright @ 2009

Ages 4-8

What happens when Daddy has to go? Chris, a little boy, is about to find out when his father is deployed and is sent far, far away. He can’t go with his daddy, but instead he needs to stay home and help his mommy. He may be sad but he is proud. He keeps going on thinking about the day daddy will be home. See through the eyes of a child into the lives of a soldier’s family. He will miss his daddy but his daddy is always with him in his heart. This story was written originally for my son when his daddy was deployed to Iraq.

My Daddy Is in the Army Author: Sherri Williams, Copyright @ 2011

Downloadable version

A short story about a little girl whose daddy has deployed. It tells what all she does with and for her daddy to help the time pass.

My Daddy Is My Hero Author: Brooke Henson

This book was written for military children to help them cope with deployments. The story, written in rhyme, begins with Daddy having to go away and ends with him coming home again. In between, the book covers things that Daddy might miss and shows how proud his children are of him.

The words are general enough to apply to all branches of the US military deployed to any part of the world. The illustrations show children of both genders and of varying ages and races so that all children can identify with the book.

My Daddy, My Hero Author: Katie Karnes, Copyright @ 2010

The Daddy is out helping the good guys. And although we miss them while they are away, we are very proud of them. Always have hope and faith and once your Daddy is done helping the good guys, he´ll be back in your arms before you know it!

My Daddy's Going Away Author: Christopher MacGregor, Copyright @ 2010

website

My Daddy is going away - but that's OK! Daddies often have to go away from home and leave their family and children behind. Whether a soldier, sailor, airman, businessman, oil-rigger, truck driver, doctor, actor or sportsman - all Dads have to go away sometimes and temporary separation affects the whole family. Whatever he does, and no matter why Dad has to leave home, it is hard on all the family. If Dad's departure is understood, his absence is more likely to be accepted and this will reduce anxiety. The book My Daddy's Going Away... and this website will help you and your children talk through the stressors of paternal separation and find ways to lessen the anxiety that is often felt across the family.

My Dad Is a Marine Author: Kimberly Coe, Copyright @ 2007

Ages 4-8

My Dad is a Marine is about one family, but it's a universal story. Although it's written with children in mind, anyone who has a loved one who is deployed will relate to and appreciate this book. As author Kimberly Coe writes, "This book is to help the children of the Marine Corps learn a little about what their dads or moms do, as well as the similar adjustments and feelings the children themselves will go through." My Dad is a Marine both explains life in a Marine family to "civilians"- it includes, for example, a "Military to Civilian Dictionary" - and helps other Marine families, talking openly about some of the issues military families have to face. Sudden upheaval is a huge part of Marine life, as is the pain of missing someone who is away.

Told from the viewpoint of Coe's young daughter, My Dad is a Marine shares the ways in which the Coe family copes when their Marine is deployed away from home. They always try to include him in any way they can, even though he isn't with them in person: they send him care packages and letters and photos. They also keep the home fires burning by visiting with other military families and taking part in Support the Troops rallies. Of course, everyone has their bad days, too. There are times when Kimberly Coe's daughter wants her dad, not her mom. Her mom always tells her that when her dad is away, he will come home as soon as he is able to. She doesn't always like this answer, but knows it's the truth, so eventually she accepts it. Sometimes it helps to talk to her mom; sometimes she just wants to be alone. They always discuss it and soon she's playing and laughing again. Stories like these will help children of military families realize that separation is often part of military life. Kimberly Coe's family has had to overcome struggles and hardships, these struggles are outweighed by the love and joy they've had, too. And they just can't imagine life without the Marine Corps

My Dad Is Going Away, But He Will Be Back One Day:

A Deployment Story Authors: James Thomas, Melanie Thomas, Copyright @ 2004

Ages 4-8

Military families sometimes have to spend a lot of time apart from each other while serving their country, with one or more of the parents deployed. The separation can be just a few days in length or many months. This children's book helps the family explain to the child how things will work while the parent is away and how to communicate over the distance until the day the family reunites. The writing style and art of the book enables each child, boy or girl, to relate to the story in a personal sense. This book was computer designed with a cut out page at the end allowing the child to write a letter and draw a picture for the deployed parent.

My Dad's a Hero Authors: Rebecca Christiansen and Jewel Armstrong, Copyright @ 2007

Ages 4-8

A children's book with war as a backdrop is not an easy subject to pull off. But the creators of Is Your Dad a Hero have found just the right approach. The reader they address is any child whose father is serving in the military, far away from home. These are children who miss their dads, worry about them, and have lots of conflicting emotions and unanswered questions. The authors know this is a tender subject for young readers and have kept the book uplifting and free from scary words like guns, war and fighting. The book gives kids permission to be happy and proud of their military dad.

My Dad the Navy Hero Author: Denise Marie Schepper, Copyright @ 2008

Ages 4-8

A little girl sees her father as her hero. She is so proud of her dad; they have so much love for each other. Her dad is in the Navy. He has been living on a ship for some time. He’s at war helping other countries fight for freedom. She tries to understand the best way she can for a little girl. The small amount of time they have together, before he has to go back to his duty, is very special.

My Father is In the Navy Author: Robin McKinley, Copyright @ 1992

Ages 4-8

"He'll be so glad to see you," said my mother. "You've grown so much. It's been a long time." My father was coming home. But I didn't remember him.

Many fathers' jobs take them away from home for long periods of time. This realistic, positive story of one little girl and one loving but absent father will enchant--as well as reassure--children whose parents are both near and far.

My First Deployment Author: Lisa Stillion, M.S.W., Copyright @ 2006

My First Deployment is an informative and entertaining book for children which explores the causes and effects of separation anxiety due to military deployment and offers practical and easy methods to help young readers cope. It is about a rambunctious little girl who goes through a range of emotions as her father leaves for a military deployment. Working through her fears and concerns, Allie soon finds creative outlets for her thoughts and emotions during this stressful time.

My Navy Dad Author: Tracy Richards, Copyright @ 2010

This book was designed to help children of military families understand the process of what it is like to have a dad in the military. A part of the proceeds from the sale of this book will be distributed to the families of our fallen hero's and the disabled veterans association.

My Red BalloonAuthor: Eve Bunting, Copyright @ 2005

Ages 4-8

A boy takes his red balloon to greet his Navy dad, who has been away at sea for months.

My Sailor Dad Author: Ross H. Mackenzie, Copyright @ 2008

Ages 4-8

Ross H. Mackenzie is an active duty Navy pilot, former instructor of English literature and writing at the U.S. Naval Academy, and father of two young boys. His book, My Sailor Dad, is a loving tribute to all families – Navy and non-military. The book uses lively text and beautiful illustrations to celebrate the sacrifices of today’s sailors, to showcase the awesome scale of today’s Navy, and to serve as an invaluable resource to Navy families who struggle with questions like, “Why do you have to go to sea?”, “Does your job really make a difference?”, “Do you still love me when you are gone?” and “Will you ever come home?”. My Sailor Dad was awarded a Gold Medal for Children's Literature by the Military Writer's Society of America in 2010."

Ned and the General

A lesson about deployment

Author: Ron Madison, Copyright @ 2004

Ages 4-8

Ned and the General helps children understand the military and the uncertainties of deployment in a most unusual way…in rhyme directed to the child. Deployment has always been difficult for the military to explain. Ned and the General does it very well.

Never Far Apart Author: Lieutenant Gary, Copyright @ 2007

Ages 2-10

A children´s book written for military parents and families by a military parent. This is a beautifully written and illustrated book that builds a bridge between a deployed military service member to child during periods of separation. The book includes a military lullaby which is also written by the author. What is really interesting, is that this heart warming and poetic book was written by a NAVY SEAL!

Night Catch Author: Brenda Ehrmantraut, Copyright @ 2005

Ages 4-8

When a soldier's work takes him half-way around the world, he enlists the help of the North Star for a nightly game of catch with his son. Night Catch is a timeless story that connects families while they are apart and offers comforting hope for their reunion.

100 Days and 99 Nights

Author: Alan Madison, Copyright @ 2008

Ages 9-12

"On Saturday mornings, you'll be the boss. You'll have to remind them that there are rules for pancakes." He brought the left corner of his mouth slightly up toward his ear to form a lopsided grin. "That's a big responsibility for someone your age." "Yes, sir," I repleid in my most military voice, to try and assure him that I was absolutely one hundred percent "can do."

"Every day you look more and more like your mother," Dad commented, which made me feel good because she is a very pretty mother. He gave me a peck on my forehead to try and assure me that he knew that I was absolutely one hundred percent "can do." The fullish moon outside my window barely lit the tattoo on his right forearm. I closed my eyes tight so I could memorize every detail of it.

Operation Yes Author: Sara Lewis Holmes, Copyright @ 2009

Ages 9-12

No one in her sixth-grade class knows quite what to make of Ms. Loupe, with her short hair, her taped square "stage" on the floor, and the interest in improvisational theatre. After all, their school is on an Air Force base--a place that values discipline more than improv. But her students soon come to love her fresh approach; and when her dear brother goes missing in Afghanistan, and Ms. Loupe herself breaks down, they band together to support their teacher. What starts as a class fundraiser expands into a nationwide effort for all injured troops, and an amazing vision of community and hope.

Over There (Board Book - Daddy Version)

Author: Dorinda Silver Williams, Copyright @ 2006

Ages 0-3

www.zerotothree.org/military

A wonderful, simple deployment book for infants and toddles which includes a pocket at the end of the story to put the parent's photo. A downloadable version of this young children's board boook is available at www.zerotothree.org. Most New Parent Support Programs at military installations have the board book available for distribution.

ParaPup Reports for Duty

Author: Elisa Vertuli, Copyright @ 2010

ParaPup stuffed animal also available

Ages 2-6

Is Daddy away on an assignment in the military? Whether he is on an extended deployment or just on temporary duty, ParaPup is ready for action! He is skilled in many tasks. ParaPup can deliver secret messages or drawings to Dad and bring back special notes. He is excellent at pulling guard duty, so you feel safe when you go to sleep at night. And he loves to snuggle when you're missing Dad or just feeling a little sad. ParaPup is on orders and ready to report to you!

Peacebound Trains

Author: Haemi Balgassi, Copyright @ 2000

Ages 9-12

Piper Reed, Navy Brat

Author: Kimberly Willis Holt, Copyright @ 2008

Ages 4-8

When a man joins the Navy, his family joins the Navy. It's not easy being the middle child, especially when your dad is a Navy Chief. Meet Piper Reed, a spunky nine-year-old who has moved more times than she can count on one hand. From Texas to Guam, wherever Piper goes, adventure follows, inspired by her active imagination, freewheeling spirit, and a bit of sister magic.

Precious Pete, Will You Remember Daddy When I Am Out to Sea?

Author: Dr. Chanda Nicole Holsey, Copyright @ 2011

Precious Pete, Will You Remember Me, When I Am Out to Sea? salutes all Navy dads. It is a charming story that addresses the separation anxiety experienced by the Navy dad when facing a military deployment. This book is important because in our society, men are often socialized to hide their feelings or withdraw. However, that is very difficult to do when a man has to leave his young child whom he adores and is really just getting to know. This book focuses on how mom and child will help relieve dad's nervousness from having to depart from his family. It is entertaining, yet instructional. Precious Pete, Will You Remember Me When I Am Out to Sea? is a delightful children's book that kids will enjoy and parents will appreciate and embrace.

Red, White, and Blue Good-bye Author: Sarah Wones Tomp, Copyright @ 2005

Ages 4-8

Sammy's Soldier Author: Sarah White, Copyright @ 2007

Ages 4-8

Families across the country are experiencing the joys and hardships that come with having a soldier and Americans are grateful for their sacrifices. The purpose of this book is to normalize the deployment process for the children of our service members. It is designed to help children of all ages realize they are not alone and soldiers are appreciated for the work that they do. This is one of many books showing support for our service members and their families.

Savvie Sunshine, Will You Remember Daddy When I Am Out to Sea?

Author: Dr. Chanda Nicole Holsey, Copyright @ 2010

Savvie Sunshine, Will You Remember Daddy When I Am Out to Sea? salutes all Navy dads. It is a charming story that addresses the separation anxiety experienced by the Navy dad when facing a military deployment. This book is important because in our society, men are often socialized to hide their feelings or withdraw. However, that is very difficult to do when a man has to leave his young child whom he adores and is really just getting to know. This book focuses on how mom and child will help relieve dad's nervousness from having to depart from his family. It is entertaining, yet instructional. Savvie Sunshine, Will You Remember Daddy When I Am Out to Sea? is a delightful children's book that kids will enjoy and parents will appreciate and embrace.

Soldier Oli Author: Kirsty Marvell, Copyright @ 2009

Ages 2-8

website

Soldier Oli is a brilliant, rhyming picture book for children aged 2-8 years. Move over Bob the Builder, Fireman Sam and Postman Pat, there is a new man in town!

Soldier Oli is a cartoon character that can be loved by all children and not just those with parents in the British Army. Children will love the illustrations of tanks, ships, C130s and of course, Soldier Oli. This first story in the series is about a soldier leaving his family and going on a tour. The story can be enjoyed by all, but it has been written to help children understand and cope if someone in their family has to go away on a tour with their regiment too.

The Fathers are Coming Home Author: Margaret Wise Brown, Copyright @ 2010

Ages 1-4

Also available on Readeo for remote storytime

The author of Goodnight Moon wrote this story to honor World War II fathers returning to their families. In glorious linoprints, "the fish father swims home to his little fish" and "the pig father wallows over to his little piglets."

The Homecoming Box

Authors: Kathleen Edick, Paula Johnson, Copyright @ 2011

Ages 4-8

www.weservetoo.com

“I wish Daddy was here with us!” ”We’ve got to remember to tell him about this!”

Come join the fun as the We Serve Too! kids discover the wonder of The Homecoming Box. Experience the joy as they make their own boxes, store their own treasures, and finally, share all those well kept stories with their Daddy whois home at last! Each book comes with the signature We Serve Too! “I will be strong and courageous” dog tag.

A great pre-deployment book and activity for kids, parents and group leaders to help to make deployment a time of growth for both children and families.

This book includes an appendix with complete instructions for making your own box and/or for hosting a “Homecoming Box” workshop for kids! Download a free Homecoming Box coloring page on this LINK.

The Impossible Patriotism Project Author: Linda Skeers, Copyright @ 2007

Ages 4-8

Caleb’s class is making projects that represent patriotism to display at Parents’ Night. Molly dresses up like the Statue of Liberty and Kareem draws a map of the United States. But Caleb can’t think of a single way to show what patriotism means to him. Besides, his dad can’t even come to Parents’ Night because he is far away, serving as a soldier. Then, when Caleb really starts thinking about his dad and what he is doing for the country, inspiration finally strikes!

The Living Tale Series: Henley and the Book of Heroes

Author: Jane H. Smith, M.D., Copyright @ 2009

Ages 9-12

Also available as a cd audio book or e-Book

A hero needs a heart so he can do extraordinary things. Remember, Henley, every good story needs a hero...and a hero needs a heart.' Nine-year-old Henley Banks dreams of being a hero, but it's not until he receives a mysterious book from his grandpa that his hero's heart is awakened. As Henley dives--literally--into the Living Tale, he discovers a world beyond anything he ever imagined--full of amazing lands, an unexpected gardener, powerful glones, and an evil that lurks behind Henley's every step.

Jump into the first book of The Living Tale Series with young Henley Banks in Henley and the Book of Heroes, as new author Jane H. Smith leads readers of all ages on a supernatural adventure into a battle for Henley's heart. In the midst of this battle, Henley's beloved grandpa is rushed to the hospital, and it seems that only Henley can save him. Not only that, but the Banks family is also struggling to hold together until their father returns from war. There are creatures that seek to overpower the boy before this can happen. How will Henley ignite his hero's heart in time?

The Wishing Tree Author: Mary Redman, Copyright @ 2008

Ages 4-8

Amanda understands her dad is making the world a better place, but it doesn’t make his deployment any easier. After mulling over ways she can support her dad, Amanda creates a small wishing tree in her room, writing her hopes and prayers on yellow ribbons that she ties onto the branches. As Amanda wishes for her dad to enjoy good meals, make new friends, and return safely, the little tree comes to life with yellow ribbons of hope. Includes information about wishing trees.

The Worn-Out BackpackAuthor: R.M. Romagnoli, Copyright @ 2008

Ages 9-12

The Worn-Out Backpack is the story of a child coping with the emotional turmoil created by her father’s military deployment to the Middle East.

We Serve Too!

A Child's Deployment Book

Authors: Kathleen Edick, Paula Johnson, Copyright @ 2008

Ages 4-8

www.weservetoo.com

This warm and touching book deals honestly with the issues of deployment from a young child's point of view. By linking their daily activities (playing, eating, etc.) with daily activities of their absent parent, We Serve Too! makes imaginative, and yet real connections with Daddy (or Mommy) in the common routines of the day, while honoring the child's own sacrifice and service to country.

We Serve Too! is a useful tool parents, teachers, and support group leaders, giving many entryways for questions and discussion with children. Civilian children will benefit as well, as they get a glimpse of military family life and begin to understand the great price being paid to preserve our freedoms and secure our safety. A free download sticker pack is available to adapt the book to all branches of the military!

The book pack contains the book We Serve Too!, a dog tag for your child to wear that says "I will be strong and courageous" on one side and "We serve too!" in our signature yellow banner on the other and an activities sheet. Available at www.weservetoo.com. Bulk order discounts of 15 or more (can combine books to meet quantity discount). Parent/leader guides available.

We Serve Too! 2

Daddy's Back!! YEAH!! (...I think) - A Child's Reunion Book

Authors: Kathleen Edick, Paula Johnson

Ages 4-8

www.weservetoo.com

Join with your favorite We Serve Too! kids as they experience the joys and trials of knitting a family back together following deployment. This warm and touching sequel invites friendly family interaction through the same honest storytelling you have come to love in We Serve Too!—A Child’s Deployment Book.

The book pack contains the book We Serve Too!, a dog tag for your child to wear that says "We just make the best of it!" on one side and "We serve too!" in our signature yellow banner on the other. Available at www.weservetoo.com. Bulk order discounts of 15 or more (can combine books to meet quantity discount). Parent/leader guides available.

What Will I Play While You Are Away? Author: James Thomas, Copyright @ 2010

Ages 4-8

There are lots of things to do, while having fun too as each child will discover in this story! With parents being away from home for many reasons to include business travel, short trips, and military deployments, this book gives a child some fun ideas of what to play while the parent is away. Through the use of rhymes, the story flows effortlessly, giving each child a sense of personal involvement, adventure, and emotional reassurance.

When Daddy Comes Home Author: Kristie Algeo, Copyright @ 2006

Ages 4-8

When Daddy Comes Home uses a familiar childhood experience to help children from military families better understand and handle the stress of post-deployment family reunions and reintegration. The book also includes practical advice for helping children cope with the surprising difficulties of post-deployment homecomings.

When Daddy Goes Away

Author: Kristie Algeo, Copyright @ 2001

Ages 4-8

When Daddy Goes Away uses a familiar childhood experience to help children from military families better understand and handle deployments. The book also includes creative ideas and strategies to help children cope with deployment situations.

When Dad's At Sea Author: Mindy Pelton, Copyright @ 2008

Ages 4-8

Emily’s dad is in the military and sometimes he has to leave for months at a time. Emily knows her dad’s job is important, but she doesn’t want him to leave! Her dad tells her how he copes with his sadness, and he even makes her a paper chain to count down the days of his trip.

When Duty Calls (Uncle Sam's Kids)

Author: Angela Sportelli Rehak, Copyright @ 2004

Ages 4-8

Deployment! An emotional cycle with psychological stages that may affect any child. The author shows parents and caregivers how to address the distinct stages of deployment such as worry, anger, detachment, sadness, recovery and anticipation of homecoming by using fun coping techniques, listening and normalizing common concerns, involvement in some decisions, discovering strength in family and community while promoting patriotism.

When Your Dad Goes to War:

Helping Children Cope with Deployment and Beyond Author: Maryann Makekau, Copyright @ 2010

Ages 8 and up

When Your Dad Goes to War provides honest communication for a difficult conversation. Having your dad deploy can evoke feelings of fear, confusion, anger, and sadness mixed together with love and pride. Defending our nation's freedom is a selfless act that also includes sacrifice; that sacrifice affects dad and the family he leaves behind. These Little Patriot Books™ bring the journey through a child's eyes---bringing hope in place of sadness, ability in place of confusion, and teamwork in the midst of absence and beyond.

Where Is My Daddy? Author: Stacy Ann Fiqueroa, Copyright @ 2007

Ages 4-8

"Where is my Daddy?" is a hard question for a mother to answer when a childs father is deployed overseas. Deployment can be hard to understand for a child, but here are a few words to help them understand how important their Daddy is in the fight for freedom. Partial proceeds of this book will be donated to help military families.

Where is My Mommy?

A Book about Children's Fears

Authors: Mary Kilgore MSW, Mitchell Kilgore MSW, Copyright @ 2010

Ages 4-8

How does a child cope when a parent disappears? This gentle story is ideal for sharing with a child who can't understand why Mom or Dad is gone, and when if ever the parent might return. Created by a clinical social worker and school social worker/mother and son team, Where Is My Mommy? helps children work through loss and grief. Can be used by therapeutic child care programs, school and preschool counselors and social workers, in support groups and individual counseling, and by family members, guardians and foster parents. Especially helpful in situations without closure such as abandonment.

While You Are Away Author: Eileen Spinelli, Copyright @ 2008

Ages 4-8

While you are on that big ship, Daddy, far, far away I tell you things. I pretend the wind can carry my words clear across the ocean right to your heart. At times a loved one may be far, far away, but that special person is never far from mind and heart. Eileen Spinelli's lyrical, patriotic text and Rene Graef's uplifting illustrations depicting military families combine to create a reassuring book about separation and reunion.

____________________________________________________________________

Military children - Deployed mother back to top

American Hero Books: My Mommy Is a Marine

Author: Alia Reese, Copyright @ 2011

Ages Infant-Preschool

www.heartstarpress.com

Help your infant-preschool age child understand and feel proud of Mommy’s very important job AND keep Mommy present in your child’s mind while Mommy is away during training and deployment. Read, march, and bark along with our fun and simple descriptions and insert your own picture over those printed in the book to see Mommy at work as a United States Marine.

Grandpa, What If? Author: Sandra Miller Linhart, Copyright @ 2010

Will Momma remember me? Will I remember her? Homecomings are wonderful reunions, but they can also be stressful at times. Momma is coming home, but she's been gone a long time. Will she recognize Bean? Will Bean be able to pick Momma out of a sea of soldiers?

Being deployed is a fact of life for soldiers of all military branches. Humanitarian efforts, operations other than war (OOW), peaceful or wartime missions - a soldier's duty is to be there. And when it is time to come home, sometimes the unknown can be a bit scary. Grandpa, What If? is a loving description of the subtle insecurities a child of a returning female soldier may have.

Just Till Mommy Comes Home Author: Loriann Kinney

A touching story about a Single Soldier Mother and her baby that are forced to live apart during a deployment, they both soon realize that love comes in many different forms and that anyplace can feel like home when filled with love.

Love, Lizzie: Letters to a Military Mom

Author: Lisa Tucker McElroy, Copyright @ 2005

Ages 4-8

Nine-year-old Lizzie writes to her mother, who is deployed. Includes nonfiction tips for helping children of military families.

Military Mommy

Author: Carol Dabny, Copyright @ 2010

Momma's Boots Author: Sandra Miller Linhart, Copyright @ 2010

It's Boot's task to take Momma where she's needed, but it's Momma's job to explain why. When Momma puts on her boots, Bean knows it's time to say good-bye, and maybe for a long time. What does Momma do when she goes? Do the other mommies wear boots which take them away, too? Can Bean understand the many things Momma's called to do, why her boots sometimes take her far away, and how a soldier's work is not much different than some other mommies' jobs?

Being deployed is a fact of life for soldiers of all military branches. Humanitarian efforts, operations other than war (OOW), peaceful or wartime missions - a soldier's duty is to be there. Sometimes it means leaving little ones behind wondering why. Momma's Boots is a loving description of a few quiet moments between a mother and her child, as Momma prepares to deploy for her job with the military.

Mommy Wears a Uniform Author: Shunsee Wilsont, Copyright @ 2009

Mommy Wears a Uniform is a look into the lives of young children who have mothers who proudly serve their country in the armed services. Due to our current wars, we have more mothers leaving their children behind for six to thirteen months at a time. We often hear of all the devoted fathers, sons, and brothers who we call hero, but we do not hear much about the mothers who selflessly serves their country while dealing with the anguish of being separated from their children. This story shows how family has a key support role while Mommy is deployed. Mommy Wears A Uniform is a salute to all the women who are daughters, wives, sisters, mothers, and HEROES.

Mommy, You're My Hero! (Board Book)

Author: Michelle Ferguson-Cohen, Copyright @ 2005

Ages Baby-preschool

The very first children's picture books for military brats, Daddy, You're My Hero! and Mommy, You're My Hero!, are part of the pioneering Books for BratsTM series for children of military personnel. The first two titles in this series were written, illustrated and published by an adult military brat in 2001 to help children coping with the deployment of a parent.

My Air Force Mom Author: Mary Lee, Copyright @ 2007

Ages 4-8

Also available as an e-Book

A winner in the Children's Fiction Category of the 73rd Annual Writer's Digest Writing Competition, My Air Force Mom is unique. This picture book explores customs and courtesies of military culture through a child's eyes. Author Mary Lee takes your child along with her fictional character Susie on a journey of discovery. From military uniforms through a military child's 'rite of passage' full circle to Susie's development of a sense of pride and patriotism in our country. My Air Force Mom shows children that the military offers careers to women as well as men. It gives military moms and dads a book to help their young children begin to understand military life. My Air Force Mom gives civilian parents a tool to explain mysteries of military life to their children. Answers to a child's curiosity are found in My Air Force Mom.

My Mommy Is My Hero Author: Brooke Henson

This book was written for military children to help them cope with deployments. The story, written in rhyme, begins with Mommy having to go away and ends with her coming home again. In between, the book covers things that Mommy might miss and shows how proud her children are of her. The words are general enough to apply to all branches of the US military deployed to any part of the world. The illustrations show children of both genders and of varying ages and races so that all children can identify with the book.

My Mommy Wears Combat Boots Author:Sharon McBride, Copyright @ 2008

As we march on through another year of war, many service members have already completed more than one deployment. Astonishingly, a lot of these service members are mothers, and they are not only balancing their commitments to their families but to the nation as well. My Mommy Wears Combat Boots is based the personal experience of a soldier and a mother who was seeking a way to explain why she needed to leave her child again and go to war. Young children are very limited when it comes to communication skills, and often have a difficult time expressing guilt, frustration, anger, loneliness and sadness and often don't realize that it's normal to feel all of this and more as the result of their mom's deployment. Books about mommies going to war are few and far between, and My Mommy Wears Combat Boots is for mothers in uniform everywhere that are seeking a way to explain to their children the emotions associated with deployment and a way to positively channel those emotions when they are away.

Over There (Board Book - Mommy Version)

Author: Dorinda Silver Williams, Copyright @ 2006

Ages 0-3

www.zerotothree.org/military

Pilot Mom Author: Kathleen Benner Duble, Copyright @ 2003

Ages 4-8

Jenny's mom, Major Strom, is a tanker pilot. Before she leaves on a training mission, she takes Jenny and her best friend K. C. to see the air base. K. C. thinks being a pilot is exciting. Jenny worries about her mom's safety and wonders if her mom likes flying more than she likes being her mom.

Kathleen Benner Duble's story reveals the strength of mother-daughter bonds. Alan Marks's art is evocative and captures the love Jenny and her mom share.

Soldier Mom Author: Alice Mead, Copyright @ 1999

Ages 9-12

In the summer before seventh grade, Jasmyn Williams is made captain of the basketball Pre-season League. That night, she learns that her mother is going away--to war.

Jas's mom is in the army, and at the beginning of August 1990 she is among the Reserves called to serve in the Persian Gulf. Who will take care of Jas and her baby half brother? Mom's boyfriend, Andrew's father, will stay with them. But Jack has hardly been a father to Andrew, much less to Jas.

Furious with Mom for abandoning them, with Jake for being self-centered and incompetent, and with herself for putting basketball before Andrew, Jas struggles to accept her mother's absence. Finally, with help from a boy she likes and from her best friend, she does. But then she makes a startling determination about her mother--and about all Soldier moms.

Alice Mead, a passionate advocate for children, stands up in this heartfelt story for the so-called Gulf War Orphans, and for every child who has lost a parent to war, even if not forever.

Sometimes We Were Brave Author: Pat Brisson, Copyright @ 2010

Ages 4-8

Jerome's mom is a Sailor. When her ship is in home port, she and Jerome bake cookies, read books together, and take their dog, Duffy, for walks. When his mom's ship goes to sea, she gives Jerome a hug and says, "Be brave, Jerome. I'll be back as soon as I can."

Even though his dad takes good care of him, Jerome misses his mom and worries about her. Jerome doesn't feel brave at all. But he does what he needs to do every day--goes to school, helps his dad with chores, and takes care of Duffy. Then one day he learns that bravery means something very different than he thought it did.

Pat Brisson's endearing story, lovingly illustrated by France Brassard, shows how a Navy family adjusts to life while Mom is serving at sea.

When Your Mom Goes to War:

Helping Children Cope with Deployment and Beyond Author: Maryann Makekau, Copyright @ 2010

Ages 8 and up

When Your Mom Goes to War is dedicated to moms and their families coping with deployment. A parent's role in shaping, guiding and loving a child is of the utmost importance. When mom is also a soldier serving in a warzone, her job of parenting takes a dramatic shift. These Little Patriot Books™ bring chapter by chapter strategies for families experiencing that shift. They are packed with tools, tips and whimsical art for a positive journey---before, during and after deployment. In addition to the helpful storyline for families, couselors and educators are calling these Little Patriot Books a "must read' for their valuable ideas, information and resources.

Where is My Mommy?

A Book about Children's Fears

Authors: Mary Kilgore MSW, Mitchell Kilgore MSW, Copyright @ 2010

Ages 4-8

____________________________________________________________________

Other books for military children back to top

Aloha Cheerio

Author: Judy Friesen-Wood, Copyright @ 2011

Aloha Cheerio is about a beloved friend and member of the family for over 15 years. Her years are remembered with the love and fun she gave to one and all. Time passes as her life also slips away. It is a heartfelt story based on a little dogs life with her family and the experiences they had together. Cheerio's passing left a void in the family's life they are slowly filling. The book is designed to help other families as they are dealing with the death of a loved one be it human or animal. The author hopes this will ease someone else's sorrow upon losing a dear family member.

Alpha Bravo Charlie: The Military Alphabet

Author: Chris L. Demarest, Copyright @ 2005

Ages 4-8

A Marine ABC Book

Author: Kristen T. Pirog, Copyright @ 2006

A Marine ABC Book uses Marine Corp terms and illustrations to teach the ABCs to children.

An Army ABC Book Author: Kristen T. Pirog, Copyright @ 2007

An Army ABC Book is an alphabet book with a distinct military flair. Aspects of life in the US Army are illustrated from A-Z through vibrant, child friendly watercolors. The phonetic alphabet used by the Army is listed under each corresponding letter. An inspirational poem dedicated to the Military child is also included.

Army Birthday Books:

Happy Birthday U.S. Army! (2010 Birthday Book)

A chronological history of the Army through the Revolutionary War, Civil War, the

history of the Buffalo Soldiers, women entering into the armed service, all the way

to our present day Soldiers.

Sam, the Army Dog (2009 Birthday Book)

Chronicles the life of Sam who belongs to an Army family and dreams about

someday becoming an Army dog.

Happy (233rd) Birthday U.S. Army! (2008 Birthday Book)

A culmination of both books, but uses the first book more to make the story

enduring. The book this year also is redesigned to show a patriotic look.

Download a copy of the Army Birthday Book, Army Birthday Posters, Army

Birthday Party Invitations and more at this www.myarmyonesource.com. Those

interested can also go to their local child and youth services development

centers and ask for a copy or get information on how to get one.

Army Brats: Naturally American Proud Author: Teresa DeLoney, Copyright @ 2008

Army Brats was written for military brats and their families. It shows how proud children of military parents are of their soldiers and their country. Inspired by her brother and his family the author hopes to encourage military families who may have to spend time away from each other and/or move to different homes often.

A Salute to Our Heroes: The U.S. Marines

Author: Brandon W. Barnett, Copyright @ 2010

Ages 4 and up

A Salute to Our Heroes: The U.S. Marines has skillfully captured the essence of more than 200 years of Marine Corps history, along with the Corps' core values of honor, courage and commitment, in a way that will keep a child's attention from cover to cover. The hardback book is written in a delightful rhyming cadence with Chesty the Bulldog, the Corps' mascot, giving a fun-filled, exuberant account of life as a Marine.

Chesty begins his narrative on the yellow footprints of a U.S. Marine Corps Recruit Depot, where every recruit's journey begins: "Marines first go to boot camp, where drill instructors are loud. If they pass, they become one of the few and proud."

Beautifully simplistic in its rhetoric, the book covers the basics of marksmanship and physical training, along with touching upon the ways a Marine can attack by land, air or sea. It even acknowledges the heartbreaking truth that sometimes a Marine has to leave family and friends behind in order to protect and defend America's interests abroad.

Captain Cat Author: Syd Hoff, Copyright @ 1994

Guess who has joined the army! Captain Cat, that's who. He has whiskers and paws, and more stripes than the soldiers have ever seen. But most important, he has a best friend who can make an army barracks feel like home.

Extra Credit Author: Andrew Clements, Copyright @ 2009

Ages 8-12

It isn't that Abby Carson can't do her schoolwork, it's just that she doesn't like doing it. And that means she's pretty much failing sixth grade. When a warning letter is sent home, Abby realizes that all her slacking off could cause her to be held back -- for real! Unless she wants to repeat the sixth grade, she'll have to meet some specific conditions, including taking on an extra-credit project: find a pen pal in a foreign country. Simple enough (even for a girl who hates homework).

Abby's first letter arrives at a small school in Afghanistan, and Sadeed Bayat is chosen to be her pen pal.... Well, kind of. He is the best writer, but he is also a boy, and in his village it is not appropriate for a boy to correspond with a girl. So his younger sister dictates and signs the letter. Until Sadeed decides what his sister is telling Abby isn't what he'd like Abby to know.

As letters flow back and forth between Illinois and Afghanistan, Abby and Sadeed discover that their letters are crossing more than an ocean. They are crossing a huge cultural divide and a minefield of different lifestyles and traditions. Their growing friendship is also becoming a growing problem for both communities, and some people are not happy. Suddenly things are not so simple.

H is for Honor:

A Military Family Alphabet

Author: Devin Scillian, Copyright @ 2006

Ages 4-8

Written by the son of a career officer, this book explores the branches of the Armed Services and speaks from the heart about the honor, privileges and sacrifices of military families everywhere. Children will discover why drill sergeants have to be so tough, what it means to be patriotic and why we need Special Forces such as the Navy SEALS, the Green Berets and the Army Rangers. H is for Honor also explains why the annual Army/Navy football game is more that just a game, how much letters from home mean to soldiers, how often military families have to move and what life on base is like. With an underlying message of courage and commitment that every child can relate to, the book will be especially meaningful to those whose parents, siblings or other relatives serve in the Armed Forces.

Military Kids Speak

My Life as a Military Child

Author: Julie Rahm, Copyright @ 2011

Ages 9-12

Celebrating the role military families play in the success of America as well as their individual accomplishments, Military Kids Speak by former naval physicist and author Julie Rahm is a fascinating and inspired account of what it takes to be a military kid. It's a team effort with a common goal; the mission is to describe what it means to be a part of a military family, what it takes to persevere when it comes to deployments, and living abroad. It's also a candid account of the military lifestyle, and how special it is to be a child of a hero.

In two parts and seventeen chapters with titles like "Military Kids Speak about Deployments," "Military Kids Speak about Living Abroad," and "Military Kids Speak about Making Friends," this engaging, conversational book begins with over two dozen essays written by today's military kids. These young authors, aged ten to sixteen, discuss the rollercoaster ride of military life, it's perks and privileges, as well as its hardships and heartaches, while the second half comprises twelve in-depth interviews with famous former military kids like Justice Leah Ward Sears, Newt Gingrich, Shaquille O'Neal, and Mark Hamill.

Being a military kid is special; a childhood spent with the military is an adventure. This first volume of Military Kids Speak is a narrative of what American kids of servicemen and servicewomen sacrifice for their country day in and day out all over the world?and what they have to say about it.

Military Life: Stories and Poems for Children

Various authors, Copyright @ 2010

This collection of original stories and poems touches on many aspects of military life from a child's point of view. From moving to making new friends, deployment, homecoming, patriotism, and tender family moments, Military Life gives a glimpse of the many joys and challenges military children experience. Contents:

Just Like You! by Julie LaBelle

My Space by Donna Portelli

Best Friends by Judy Hissong

My Daddy Jumps Today by Michelle Tonsmeire

Mama's Been Called Up by Charlene Kochensparger

Saying Goodbye by Peggie Brott

The Good Day by Alison Buckholtz

Holding Mom's Kite by Jennifer Jesseph

When Mommy Comes Home by Amy Houts

When Daddy Comes Home by Amy Houts

Love Letters by Karen Pavlicin

It's Five O'Clock by Cindy Shaw

Good Night by Christy Lyon

My Brother Is My Hero Author: Brooke Henson

This book was written for military children to help them cope with deployments. The story, written in rhyme, begins with Brother having to go away and ends with him coming home again. In between, the book covers things that Brother might miss and shows how proud his siblings are of him. The words are general enough to apply to all branches of the US military deployed to any part of the world. The illustrations show children of both genders and of varying ages and races so that all children can identify with the book.

My Own Psalm 91 Book will help your toddler get these important concepts in their heart at an early age. Thirteen hardback pages of illlustrations and a paraphrased look at Psalm 91 by Peggy Joyce will keep even your youngest child wanting you to read to him from his very own copy! Available in 14 languages.

My Sister Is My Hero Author: Brooke Henson

This book was written for military children to help them cope with deployments. The story, written in rhyme, begins with Sister having to go away and ends with her coming home again. In between, the book covers things that Sister might miss and shows how proud her siblings are of her. The words are general enough to apply to all branches of the US military deployed to any part of the world. The illustrations show children of both genders and of varying ages and races so that all children can identify with the book.

Nubs: The True Story of a Mutt, a Marine & a Miracle

Ages 4-8

Nubs, an Iraqi dog of war, never had a home or a person of his own. He was the leader of a pack of wild dogs living off the land and barely surviving. But Nubs's life changed when he met Marine Major Brian Dennis. The two formed a fast friendship, made stronger by Dennis's willingness to share his meals, offer a warm place to sleep, and give Nubs the kind of care and attention he had never received before. Nubs became part of Dennis's human "pack" until duty required the Marines to relocate a full 70 miles away--without him. Nubs had no way of knowing that Marines were not allowed to have pets.

So began an incredible journey that would take Nubs through a freezing desert, filled with danger tofind his friend and would lead Dennis on a mission that would touch the hearts of people all over the world.

Nubs and Dennis will remind readers that friendship has the power to cross deserts, continents, and even species.

Operation: Celebration

Discover the fun that can be found when a classroom of children help three long distance families share the holiday season through . . . Operation: Celebration!

Ages 4-8

"That's impossible", said twins Jeremy & Liza after their Mom told them they're all connected by this thing called an Invisible String. "What kind of string"? They asked with a puzzled look to which Mom replied, "An Invisible String made of love." That's where the story begins. A story that teaches of the tie that really binds. The Invisible String reaches from heart to heart. Does everybody have an Invisible String? How far does it reach, anyway? Does it ever go away? Read all about it! The Invisible String is a very simple approach to overcoming the fear of loneliness or separation with an imaginative flair that children can easily identify with and remember. Here is a warm and delightful lesson teaching young and old that we aren't ever really alone and reminding children (and adults!) that when we are loved beyond anything we can imagine. "People who love each other are always connected by a very special String, made of love. Even though you can't see it with your eyes, you can feel it deep in your heart, and know that you are always connected to the ones you love."

Thus begins this heart-warming and reassuring story that addresses the issue of "separation anxiety" (otherwise known as the sense of existential 'aloneness') to children of all ages.

Specifically written to address children's fear of being apart from the ones they love, The Invisible String delivers a particularly compelling message in today's uncertain times that though we may be separated from the ones we care for, whether through anger, or distance or even death, love is the unending connection that binds us all, and, by extension, ultimately binds every person on the planet to everyone else. Parents and children everywhere who are looking for reassurance and reaffirmation of the transcendent power of love, to bind, connect and comfort us through those inevitable times when life challenges us!

Let's tell the whole world know that we are all connected by Invisible Strings!

The Magic Box: When Parents Can't Be There to Tuck You in

Ages 4-8

Casey's dad has to go away for a couple of days-AGAIN! Casey hates it that his father has to travel so often. But this time Dad leaves a special gift that will help Casey cope with his absence and future trips as well. This upbeat and delightfully illustrated book contains many valuable tips for families in which a parent is frequently away from home. Also contains a Note to Parents.

The Night Before Christmas in the Military

Santa receives thousands of letters from children who have parents in the military. He decides this year he'll do something extra special for the troops that are away from home.

The Soldiers' Night Before Christmas

Ages 4-8

"'Twas the night before Christmas, and all through the base

Only sentries were stirring--they guarded the place.

The soldiers were sleeping and snoring away

As they dreamed of 'back home' on good Christmas Day..."

One Christmas Eve at a military barracks in the Middle East, some homesick soldiers are paid a visit by Sergeant McClaus, the Santa of Soldiers. This lively and poignant tale is inspired by Clement C. Moore's classic yuletide poem.

Ages 4-8

In a world where bigger is often better, a tiny tree realizes that its extra small size can make an extra big difference. This book is a wonderful deployment tool designed to help military children enjoy the Christmas holiday while separated from a loved one overseas. Military families will be inspired to create their own Soldier's Tree which can be sent to their special service member serving abroad. With a poetic storyline and perfectly imperfect illustrations, The Soldier's Tree is sure to be loved by children who wear the stars and stripes of America.

The Way I Feel (Also available in Spanish)

Ages 4-8

“Silly is the way I feel

when I make a funny face

and wear a goofy, poofy hat

that takes up lots of space.”

So begins a child’s romp through The Way I Feel, a delightful book that helps kids describe their emotions and understand that feelings are a normal part of life.

Vivid, expressive illustrations fill every page with color, encouraging children to understand their emotions (and those of others). For parents and teachers, The Way I Feel provides a means of introducing both the concept of feelings and the vocabulary that helps children express their emotions with words.

U.S. Navy Alphabet Book Authors: Sammie Garnett and Jerry Pallotta, Copyright @ 2004

Ages 4-8

Anchors Aweigh! An alphabetical tour of the U.S. Navy. Learn about the Navy Seals, find out the difference between a boat and a ship, discover the Navy's very own alphabet, and much, much more.

____________________________________________________________________

Books for military teens back to top

My Story: Blogs by Four Military Teens

website

My Story: Blogs by Four Military Teens is a series of blogs by four military teens that highlights their feelings and experiences before, during, and after parental deployment. It provides support and education for all military teens and pre-teens by honoring their unique joys and sacrifices, addressing their fears and hopes, and exploring how parental deployment affects their lives. Although the four youth in My Story are fictional, the stories are real—the blogs are a compilation of real life experiences of military kids we have been honored to meet and learn from.

The blogs in My Story address issues such as:

Pride in parent’s military service

Sadness, anger and confusion regarding deployments

The excitement of homecoming

Challenges of reconnecting after deployment

Finding a "new normal"

Teen depression

Dealing with parent’s emotional and physical challenges (e.g., PTSD, substance abuse, injury)

Divorce

Resilience and post traumatic growth

Psalm 91 for Youth: God's Umbrella of Protection

Would you like for your child to know how to overcome the fears that face him? Young people in today's world are faced with so many more worries and uncertainties than those even a generation ago, but you are not without an answer. Psalm 91 for Youth can be one of the greatest gifts you can give to equip your teenager to meet the challenge. Filled with heartwarming stories of young people who have stood on God's Word, this is a book that could easily save his/her life and the lives of those they love!

____________________________________________________________________

Books for parents of military kids back to top

Dads at a Distance:

An Activities Handbook for Strengthening Long Distance

Relationships

Developed by: The National Institute for Building Long Distance Relationships

This book contains 330 activities to help business travelers, non-custodial fathers, military men, airline pilots, truckers, etc. strengthen and enjoy their relationships with their children while they are away.

Moms over Miles:

An Activities Handbook for Strengthening Long Distance

Relationships

Developed by: The National Institute for Building Long Distance Relationships

This book contains 330 activities to help business travelers, non-custodial mothers, military women, airline pilots, flight attendants, etc. strengthen and enjoy their relationships with their children while they are away.

101 Ways to be a Long-Distance Super Dad...or Mom, Too!

101 Ways To Be A Long-Distance Super-Dad…or Mom, Too! offers helpful, practical tips for parents who live or work in one place, and whose children live in another. While divorce can geographically separate a mom or dad from a child, so can military service or a job requiring travel. This book can help parents remain an important part of their children’s lives.

Now in its 14th printing, the book is a must for parents who want to keep in close contact with their children, but find it difficult to overcome the barriers posed by distance. Award-winning journalist George Newman draws on his experience as a divorced father, sharing valuable tips for enriching the parent-child relationship, even during physical separation.

Surviving Military Separation:

A 365-day Activity Guide for the Families of Deployed Personnel

Family members know that today, military separation is common and that long deployments are the norm. Coping with everyday problems and hardships by themselves is very difficult, and often leads to loneliness and depression. In his day-to-day counseling of military family members, Marc CB Maxwell, a Department of Defense Guidance Counselor and former Army Airborne Ranger, discovered that many members of his military community were unprepared for these separations. Surviving Military Separation: A 365-Day Activity Guide for the Families of Deployed Personnel is the helping hand they need to get through their family member's deployment.

Marc's daily counseling quickly made it clear that his members required something fun, easy to understand, and enjoyable to pass the time. Surviving Military Separation is the first book on the market to provide everyday steps and activities to help guide family members through these particularly trying separations.

Lavishly illustrated with more than 140 pieces of original art by Val Laolagi, Surviving Military Separation is an activity guidebook created especially for family members of deployed personnel. This unique presentation offers 365 days of activities for the entire family. The book's setup allows readers to break down the lengthy deployment into weeklong chunks, which passes the deployment much more quickly by taking it one fun and creative step at a time.

Surviving Military Separation also includes: A section for journal entries for readers to record their thoughts and feelings for a deployed loved one to read at a later time; a calendar section to help family members remember important dates; stationery to write their deployed personnel; and a world map to assist family members in locating their deployed loved one.

Coming on the heels of the military's recent announcement of longer deployments, Surviving Military Separation is both timely and long overdue. Every family experiencing a military separation will find this book indispensable.

The Military Father:

A Hands-on Guide for Deployed Dads (by Armin A. Brott,

former U.S. Marine)

www.mrdad.com/store/military

A much-needed resource for the long-distance dads and dads-to-be, who are seeking information and advice on how to be involved with their family before, during, and after their deployment.

Written by the country's leading authority on fathers and families, The Military Father helps fathers and their families face the challenges of deployment and stay connected with their loved ones back home. Special topics covered include: